Name Change

After much debate and soul-searching, husband has a new, final alias. As loyal followers surely remember, when I began this blog I gave him the nickname "Skipper" in part because he loves to go on boat rides, but mostly out of laziness and lack of ideas. He hated it. Then I temporarily began calling him "My Dude" which I hated because I never, ever call him "Dude" despite the fact that he bears some (emphasis on some) resemblance to The Dude "Lebowski." So after some thought I have arrived at his initial: J. Why was that so hard?